The Boy Jesus in the Temple

Lesson 6      July 5, 2025

And He said to them, “Why is it that you were looking for Me? Did you not know that I had to be in My Father’s house?”

Luke 2: 49

INTRODUCTION

In our Study today we will see what reality is and how God displays reality to men. Reality therefore can only be seen as we look at the Boy Jesus for He made all things and all things are made for Him and wrapped up in Him.

Philosophy examines secular wisdom and knowledge, limiting itself to what is apparent to the natural mind. It therefore looks at human life, constantly repeating its key phrase “under the sun” , for that is what it is observing, analyzing, discussing personal experiences and reviewing them in the light of human wisdom.

So let us look at this Study and the lessons it teaches very carefully.

The vast majority of Christians tend to think of Jesus seeing an image of Jesus in the Christmas image of a baby in a manger.

Others think of Him as a good man who taught many valuable lessons in morality; still others see Him mainly as a kind of superhuman; a godlike figure, who has a startlingly otherworldly, brilliant and shining appearance and who wields tremendous power.

Our Study Scripture however forces us to examine who Jesus is, His incarnation, birth, the stages of His life and His ministry. Our focus however in not in detail on His birth, His baptism, his temptation and much of His general Messianic ministry but on His youth.

So let us look at Jesus’ youth, the path He would follow as he matured like other children, and how and why He would react to His experiences as He did.

But as we examine our Lesson Study we will come to understand what Jesus’ position was, why He came as a human person, and what that involved. But first we note the revelation of Luke 10:21

“In that hour Jesus rejoiced in the Spirit and said, “I thank You, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that You have hidden these things from the wise and prudent and revealed them to babes. Even so Father, for so it seemed good in Your sight.

All things have been delivered to Me by My Father, and no one knows who the Son is except the Father, and who the Father is except the Son, and the one to whom the Son wills to reveal Him.

And, also in showing us who the Son the Lord Jesus Christ is and what His presence meant:

“But if I cast out demons with the finger of God, surely the kingdom of God has come unto you” Luke 11:20.

But two thousand years ago a little baby was born. He came in due time, the time appointed. He was God’s Messiah, the Servant of Jehovah, the King of Kings and Lord of Lords.

The announcement was made to a few select persons and then we see the unfolding revelation of who this baby was and what this life was going to be like.

Luke and Matthew record Jesus’s mother being told by the angel that:

“The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Highest will overshadow you; therefore, also that Holy One who is to be born will be called the Son of God”.

The Lord Jesus Christ voluntarily assumed human nature and therefore Hebrews 2:14 stated, “Inasmuch then as the children have partaken of flesh and blood, He himself likewise shared in the same that through death He might destroy him who had the power of death, that is, the devil”.

He was not born among the aristocracy and elite at this time. He was born from parents who were certainly not wealthy or powerful. But they were godly, committed to God and His Law and Commandments. There was no better place in which the Son of God to be born. This was the best house for him to grow up in.

It is a difficult concept to grasp but we should understand that Jesus was fully human. His conception was supernatural, but the foetus developed supernaturally in His mother’s womb, was fed through the umbilical cord and at the appointed normal time He came down the birth canal and was delivered just like any other baby. Jesus then went through childhood and developed physically, intellectually and spiritually.

Jesus in eternity was spirit but as planned by the eternal Councils of God he came to earth as a man.

Hebrews 10:5 declares:

“Therefore, when Christ came into the world, he said: “Sacrifice and offering you did not desire, but a body you prepared for me”.

See also Philippians 2:5-11 a passage regarded as one about Jesus’ humiliation.

Of course we know that He was without sin and at every stage of His development He always did what was right and appropriate for a child.  During this process He broke none of the Commandments of God and none of His actions violated the principles of righteousness and holiness.

There is therefore in His case a supernatural conception. His body progressed and grew but He always knew how to obey and He learned obedience by obeying. Because of this fact Jesus had all the experiences that human beings have but as He was that “holy thing” He was apart from sin.

He had to find the will of His Father just as you and I have to learn the will of God for we are human just as He was human. But unlike us He never made a false step even though His temptation carried Him to the extreme degree of pressure.

Note therefore Jesus in His human nature confessed He did not know everything and He depended on His Father to direct his steps. He prayed and He waited on His Father and He pryed constantly and when the will of His Father was revealed He obeyed.

It is very important that we understand the lesson taught by scholars that it is not a sin to not knowing something unless you are supposed to know it and obey what you do know.

So Jesus would confess He did not in his human path know the time of His Second Coming. That was only known by the Father.

When Jesus was coming toward the Cross on Gethsemane He prayed “O My Father, if it be possible let this cup pass from me, nevertheless not My will but thine be done”.

We are therefore told specifically that Jesus was human just like us but the Holy Spirit equipped Him to the fullest extent, more than any other man to that He could carry out His work of the Messianic ministry.

At His baptism we are told plainly in Luke 4 that after that event the Holy Spirit drove Jesus into the wilderness to be tempted of the Devil. His ministry was powered by the Holy Spirit and Philippians 2 made it clear that Jesus humbled Himself, left heaven, came to earth in the humiliating situation as a man, and operated under the power of the Holy Spirit.

Jesus had to learn to be subject to the leading as one writer puts it of the third party of the Holy Spirit who was also God so He could be an example for us, teaching us we too have to learn to be under the leading of the Holy Spirit.

That is what human nature requires and we have to understand the role of the holy spirit in the life of Jesus, as well as in our lives.

This leading, the testing and the experiences Jesus underwent made Him perfectly fitted when He was at the Father’s right hand to sympathize with us, and intercede for us. He understands all we go through, our temptations, and our weakness.

He could then say well as He spoke to His countrymen at that synagogue in Nazareth, quoting from the prophesy in the Book of Isaiah about Him:

“The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me”.

Jesus would then go on to relate the prophesy in Isaiah which detailed His Messianic ministry.

Philippians 2:7 tells us that Jesus emptied Himself and took on Himself the form of a slave.  This passage should not be interpreted that He ceased to be God, for the words used does not support that heretical position.  We are told however that Jesus was filled with the Holy Spirit more than any other man and that He lived and then carried out His ministry totally under the control of the Holy Spirit.

For sure, there is some mystery involved in Jesus’ dual nature and the idea of His growth. However it is difficult to maintain the position that Jesus was not always aware of who He was, at a level commensurate with His human development.  His development would of necessity be much more rapid than the development of a normal or even a genius child.

Since the Holy Spirit was directly involved and filled the Child from conception, this filling would involve the exchange of information at a level at which we can hardly understand.

The Gospel of Luke shows clear emphasis that Jesus, “the Son of man”, (note that this is a powerful messianic title) is definitely a man and His essential manhood is constantly displayed.

The Apostle John makes it clear that Jesus was the ‘Word of God” and that He existed from before the beginning, that He was God, that He created all things, seen and unseen and that He came to earth and His disciples were able to touch Him, feel Him and interact with Him in every way.

So clearly Luke is introducing Theophilus and us to the perfect man and that by looking at how He behaves, we will learn many valuable lessons.

We should be reminded that the first readers of this Gospel lived in an age when mythology had popularized the idea that the gods often visited humans.  But in those visits the gods did not become human and remained different from human beings.

There is a major difference in the teaching in Luke’s Gospel. He makes it clear that Jesus was God and provides convincing evidence to make people believe that Jesus became a real man at His incarnation.

Any teaching or teacher which deviates from the revealed facts of His nature, that Jesus came in the ‘flesh’, belongs to the ‘Antichrist’, according to the Apostle John.

While Jesus was fully human He was also fully God.  Our Lord had two natures, His deity and His humanity and none should be emphasized at the expense of the other. 

We should be mindful of this fact in considering the Text. Jesus acted the way He did and could do and say what no other young child could have done and been right in doing so because of who He was.

Jesus’ wisdom and development as a child, physically, intellectually and spiritually was such that His parents, despite the revelations that they had been given about Him previously, seemed unable to grasp the full implications of His person. They seemed unable to understand what it meant to be the “Son of God”, the Messiah, that “Holy Thing”. 

It was very difficult even for the disciples and the other followers of Jesus who lived with Him, heard Him speak and teach and saw Him perform miracles.

If we are honest with ourselves we will admit that we also, despite all the evidence that we have and the possession of the indwelling Holy Spirit, do not find it easy to grasp Jesus in His fullness.

In any case God cannot be fully known by human beings.

The fact is, Jesus is God, He is Sovereign and there is an unbreakable relationship between deity and sovereignty, and between sovereignty and authority.  His authority as God was infinitely over that of His parents Mary and Joseph, but at the same time He showed in His wisdom that He was willing to accommodate Himself to the parental authority of those in whose temporary custody God the Father had placed Him.

Many parents wish that their children would be great, some even expect their children to be great but a lot fewer expect this to happen while their children are still children.  Also, many parents have had the unfortunate experience of their children going missing even for a span of minutes in a mall or at an exhibition or concert and the horror of such an experience can even be felt by those who only hear the story. These two thoughts highlight what the earthly parents of Jesus faced on one of their visits to Jerusalem to attend the Passover Feast, as Luke records the only event in Scriptures from the boyhood of Jesus, known as the hidden years. The whole episode however is more than a human story and is of critical importance as it goes straight to the heart of discussing the nature of Jesus, the God-Man.

We can understand why the parents of Jesus worried and feared needlessly for His safety. All the saints of God, including great men like Abraham, Job, Elijah, at times failed to understand who God really is and the implications of His virtues or attributes.

Luke’s primary objective in his record is to show that God is uniquely Jesus’ Father and he contrasts the wisdom and authority of Jesus with that of his parents.  An accompanying contrast is made between Jesus’ earthly parents and His heavenly Father.

While there are many fanciful tales in apocryphal writings about the childhood of Jesus, this is the only inspired account from that period and Luke must have considered it important for inclusion in his Gospel. Matthew records the incident of the Magi and the attempt of Herod to kill the baby Jesus, and the flight to Egypt, this being the only other incident from the growing up years of Jesus.

It is in this Text we find the first recorded words of Jesus and they are very important in terms of what they teach about the person of Jesus, His relationship to the Father, the priority of relationships and serve as an example for right Christian attitude. The Text also provides some insight to the life and spiritual development of Jesus’ earthly parents.

VERSE 39-41.

As we begin to read this Text we should bear in mind that the entire story in the Bible is centered on one person.

Jesus is the fulfillment of God’s promises and purposes. It is about Him. Through His death and resurrection and His Second Coming God will act decisively.

We too will be called on to make a decision, for since Jesus is the One through whom God the Father is working out His purposes and His promises, rescuing the world from the destructive forces in it and from our sinfulness, we must decide about Him. As one writer states,

 “We don’t have the luxury of saying, “I don’t know and I don’t care”.

We have previously looked in this Chapter 2 at a model of parenting from the lives of Mary and Joseph. Jesus was now only 40 days old and as the Law required Jesus was taken to the Temple in Jerusalem with His godly parents for every firstborn male had to be taken to the Temple and a sacrifice of a pair of turtledoves or two young pigeons had to be offered. This was done and we read of the magnificent reception and prophetic blessings that He received at the Temple on that occasion. The requirement of the Law was kept.

Luke reports that the parents of Jesus always went up to Jerusalem to celebrate the Feast of the Passover. This was the most holy and high feast of the three major feasts that all males were supposed to attend in Jerusalem.

Clearly, Joseph and Mary were extremely devout and committed followers of God and they had clearly given their lives to the Lord and wanted to obey Him and so they every year undertook the long and dangerous journey to worship God and fulfill the requirements of the law. This Law commemorated God’s grace in delivering the nation of Israel from slavery in Egypt.

This was a trip traveling either on foot or with donkeys and it would take about 3 to 4 days. They lived in Nazareth and so they would go east across the Jordan, go to the east side of the Jordan River and then go west back to the city of Jerusalem to avoid traveling through Samaria and avoiding the prejudice and divisions between Samaritans and Jews.

Remember that the trip of Joseph and Mary with Jesus would be a dangerous one. That is why Jesus in the Parable of the Good Samaritan told about robbers attacking a certain man who journeyed to Jerusalem. That journey would take place through the kind of territory where robbers would attack travelers along the way. To be safe Jews going to the Feasts in Jerusalem would travel in large caravans.

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Jesus was now 12 years old one year away from His 13th birthday, the time when He would pass into adulthood.

One writer tells us that “the year between age to an age 13 was one of intense study in preparation for assuming the responsibilities of a Jewish male before God, Jesus would be learning the law, somewhat like learning catechism in our time”.

There is no wonder therefore that the Child Jesus grew physically and became strong. He increased in wisdom because the grace of God was upon Him.

It is amazing to know that during the centuries hundreds of stories have emerged about the boyhood of Jesus even though the Bible is completely silent on any of that.

One writer tells us “If we are to believe some of the legends, however, we would have to say that Jesus had a lot of fun as a boy. One legend says that lions and leopards worshipped him. Another says that when Jesus was an infant, he said to a palm tree, “Bend down and refresh my mother with your fruit”, and the Palm tree obeyed.

Another story says that when Jesus was five years old, he molded twelve sparrows from clay, then he clapped his hands and the sparrows flew away.

The stories will continue to be told as long as people think that Jesus knew from his infancy exactly who he was and the power that was available to him in his deity. They think he was “grown up” from the time he was born, in other words. But verse 40 does not say that.

Our Lord Jesus was born as a baby, incarnated, God in the flesh. He experienced the full spectrum of his humanity, yet without sin. The apostle Paul said it clearly in Philippians 2:6-8: “Who, being in the very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he committed himself and became obedient to death, even death on the cross”.

Jesus went through a process of increasing in wisdom. Jesus was raised by godly parents according to the Law of Moses. Early in his life, he learned the joy of studying the Law, the prophets, and the Psalms. Proverbs encouraged him to seek godly wisdom, not that which the world relies upon.

Webster says, “Wisdom is the quality of being wise: the power of judging rightly and following the soundest course of action based on knowledge, experience and understanding”. That definition defines wisdom out of our own resources”

We note therefore that the Holy Spirit worked with Jesus. Jesus was taught the word of God. His parents had helped Him develop in the area of godly wisdom so He could live a life pleasing to His heavenly Father though He was living in a fallen world. Jesus went through the process of day-to-day developing Godly wisdom as He grew.

We know that He also grew spiritually for the Lord God was pleased with His son so that at Jesus’ baptism He would say, “This is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased”.

 Luke tells us that the family stayed in Jerusalem for the entire week of Passover so we know that they fully obeyed the law and at the end of Passover Feast they headed back home.

Now the problem started. Jesus’ parents would have left in these large caravans for safety where children would be mixed in with those from other families for they were generally all the relatives and friends and neighbours from the small villages.

The 12 year old Jesus was discovered missing and His parents had to make their way back to Jerusalem. A fruitless search had ensued within their caravan but no Jesus. Joseph and Mary then headed back to Jerusalem where three days after missing Him, Jesus is ‘found’ in the Temple among the great sages of Israel, asking and answering questions. All who heard Him were astounded at His grasp and insight into the Scriptures. In the face of His mother’s consternation and mild rebuke, Jesus gave the startling response, “Why did you seek Me? Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?”.

Many questions arise from the Text; did Jesus act irresponsibly towards His parents? While the Scriptures are emphatic that Jesus was without sin, how was it that His behaviour, which was regarded as wrong by His parents, was not wrong? Why can Jesus’ actions not be wrong for Him, when they would have been wrong for any other Jewish or Gentile boy for that matter? What was Jesus’ purpose in deliberately remaining in Jerusalem? Pointedly, Jesus was not where His parents expected Him to be but He was where He was supposed to be!

Let us carefully consider the Text for answers to these important questions.

Clearly Jesus felt a compulsion to see about His Father’s business. He had a sense of purpose and calling which He exhibited even as young as the age of twelve.  Our study of the Text should excite a similar desire in our hearts to be about our heavenly Father’s business. 

Verse 41.   Joseph and Mary showed themselves to be law abiding Jews in their attendance at the feast of Passover, for they obeyed the command that all Jewish males were required to appear before God three times each year; at Passover, Pentecost and the Feast of Tabernacles. 

(Ex.23:14-17; Deut. 16:16). By the time of the first century Jews were scattered all over the Roman Empire and it was literally impossible for all Jews to attend the three Feast but many endeavoured to attend at least one of the required feasts.

It was a difficult journey even for those who lived in Palestine but Joseph and Mary attended each year and it was likely a sacrifice for them as they were poor folk. While women did not have to attend the feasts, we note that Mary accompanied her husband every year. (See 1 Sam. 1:7 for this type of behaviour by another woman of God).

Verse 42-43.   Commentators differ on whether it is at twelve or thirteen years that a Jewish boy becomes a “son of the law”. Many hold that at twelve years children began to learn to fast so they would be able to fast on the Day of Atonement. Then at thirteen years old a child became a son of the commandment, that is, obliged to the duties of adult synagogue membership.

Jewish boys were of course sons of the covenant by virtue of their circumcision. At thirteen years through some formal rite they become full participants in synagogue life and begin to undergo particular instruction and training, as well as begin to learn a trade.

It was an important age and would be helpful for a boy to experience Passover in preparation for his official entry into Jewish life the following year and Jesus’ parents were helpful in this regard.

One commentator notes that Luke here called Jesus a “boy” (Greek pais, a word also used of servants) rather than a “child” (Greek paidion), used in verse 40.  So at this stage Jesus was probably considered to be a “son of the covenant”.

It should be noted that the bar mitzvah of modern times is dated about five hundred years after the time of Jesus.  The customs of the time of Jesus were probably somewhat different and so it is very likely that Jesus was now considered to be a responsible person and His parents expected Him to behave accordingly, and in line with their definition of responsible behaviour.  He would be therefore somewhat free to be with the other adults and children in the caravan of the pilgrims, rather than staying around with His parents.

Except for the statement in Luke 2:40 nothing is known of Jesus’ life from the time He was one month old to the time when He was twelve and this is all the Holy Spirit would have us know of this period of His life. 

Note the context of this particular location. It certainly would have had a great effect on Jesus. Its significance would be certainly clear to Jesus at this stage of His intellectual development. He would have known the Law, the Exodus, and the history of Israel very well.

Passover lasted eight days, one day for killing the paschal lamb and seven days for the observance of the Feast of Unleavened Bread, (Exodus 12:15; Leviticus 23:5-6). It was a time of celebration, as it marked the nation’s deliverance from slavery in Egypt. Joseph and Mary appeared to have spent the full eight days in Jerusalem, though it was not absolutely necessary that they stay past the first two days.

The Passover Feast was an impressive spectacle as the blood from the lambs was passed hand to hand in golden and silver bowls along two lines of priests, to be finally dashed against the alter. Meanwhile, large crowds of pilgrims gathered in the outer courts of the Temple sang the Hillel Psalms (Psalm 113-118). 

The boy Jesus might have been a participant in this ceremony that pointed to Him and the greater deliverance that He would accomplish through His own death.

He would have sang about “The stone which the builders refused is become the head stone of the corner. This is the LORD’s doing; it is marvellous in our eyes”.

At the end of the Feast Joseph and Mary headed back to Nazareth but Jesus remained in Jerusalem. The decision to remain in Jerusalem was solely His, which He later explained as being about His Father’s business. Luke makes the point that “the child Jesus tarried. So Jesus was not awestruck with the sights of Jerusalem nor was there any attraction that persuaded Him to remain.He had no problem with His parents’ company or any with life in Nazareth for that matter.

None-the-lessneither of His parents was as yet aware of this “seeming” indiscretion. Interestingly this is the last direct mention we have of Joseph in Luke’s Gospel.

Verse 44-45.   Those who travelled to Jerusalem for the Feasts would often travel together in caravans. Thus, family, friends and other acquaintances from Nazareth and the surrounding areas seem to have formed such a caravan. The Feast having concluded, the caravan began the journey home and among them was Mary and Joseph but not Jesus.

Joseph and Mary were accustomed to the discretion and obedience of Jesus and were about to be thrown off their guard. Jesus was not discovered to be missing immediately but at some point after a day’s travel, probably when the caravan halted for the night He was missed.

Several reasons have been put forward as to why the parents would not have missed Jesus. First, He was an absolutely trustworthy and reliable child and so His parents might not have been as concerned with His whereabouts, as they might have been with other children. Joseph and Mary assumed wrongly that He was somewhere in the caravan in the company of family, friends or other relatives.

Jesus had probably made this journey with His parents before and they expected a certain behaviour. People then lived somewhat clannish and His being with other clan members would have been quite acceptable. Also it was customary for the women and small children to start first and the men follow later; the older children would travel with either parent. If this was the case Mary might have expected Jesus to be with Joseph, while Joseph thought He was with His mother.

In any case after a futile search of the caravan Joseph and Mary headed back to Jerusalem in search of their child. One commentator notes in part by way of application:

Those that would find Christ must seek till they find; for he will at length be found of those that seek him, and will be found their bountiful rewarder. Those that have lost their comforts in Christ, and the evidences of their interest in him, must bethink themselves where, and when, and how, they lost them, and must turn back again to the place where they last had them; must remember whence they are fallen, and repent, and do their first works, and return to their first love, Revelation 2:4,5…

Verse 46-47.   Imagine the sheer panic at losing this extraordinary child that they knew to be the “son of God”.

Three days after discovering Jesus missing, His parents find Him in the Temple in Jerusalem. This seemed to be the last place they looked. They looked everywhere before hitting on the idea that, “Maybe he was at the Temple, but since we are running out of holy places to find him, let us look at that unlikely place”.

Some interpret the ‘after three days’ to mean after a three day search in Jerusalem. Either way there would have been growing concern and anxiety on the part of His parents as the hours stretched into each other and still no sign of their boy.

A search of the Temple precincts appears almost as a last resort and surprise; He is found in the Temple grounds in one of the porticos where the rabbis taught; not in the sanctuary to which only the priests had access.

A bigger surprise awaited Joseph and Mary. They find Jesus sitting among the great sages and teachers of Israel, hearing, answering and asking questions.

Note that the ‘hearing’ is placed first, indicating that He was there as a learner and it was in that capacity that He asked questions. Jerusalem was the centre of Jewish learning and teaching and the eminent rabbis of the day would gather after the Feasts to teach and answer questions.

The method of question and answer was the customary form of rabbinical teaching. They would be asked questions and they in turn would ask questions to challenge their students to deeper consideration of the issues being discussed. At the opportune time Jesus would respectfully pose a question and have questions asked of Him. His questions and answers were of such profundity that all who heard Him were staggered at His understanding and wisdom regarding the Scriptures.

This was an impressive intellectual performance by Jesus.  These Jewish rabbis were known for their impressive intellect and power of analysis.  One writer looks at it this way:

“This is sort of like a junior high school kid discussing physics with Einstein.  Although, Jesus had a unique advantage, He had a special relationship with the writer of God’s Word.”

It is not to be imagined that Jesus in any way sought to embarrass or show-up the teachers. His role was principally that of a learner and a listener and at some point someone must have asked: ‘how old are you boy’?

There is no getting away from the fact that Jesus was asking these rabbis questions, probing them and forcing them to clarify their analysis.  It might very well have been that when they questioned Him, He was giving them some insights that they had not previously had. Jesus had been with these people for several days and so His exposure to them and His questioning of them was clearly quite extensive and prolonged.

It is not an outrageous idea that these rabbis accepted Jesus as a child prodigy and showed Him tremendous and exceptional respect.  Since Jesus was filled with the Holy Spirit it is very possible that He outshone these rabbis. 

Verse 48.   This was the scene that greeted Joseph and Mary and one can only imagine the emotional mix of concern, anxiety, relief, and maybe even anger, to find Jesus sitting among the rabbis discussing theology and seemingly aloof to all the distress He has caused. Mary’s reaction, out of what appears to be frustration and anger is understandable as she scolds Him and even if gently; her words are intended as a rebuke.

Mary’s maternal and parental instincts seems to have for the moment overshadowed all of the wonderful things she had seen and had been told about her son, the things she “treasured in her heart”, as here she treated Him as she would have any other child. With a sense of disbelief she in effect asked, “How could you have done this to your father and myself”? 

“…thy father and I…” Joseph was not Jesus’ real father but he was legally so and it was this relationship that gave Jesus the right to the throne of David. The facts of Jesus birth were not commonly known and though there were certain ‘rumours’ circulating, Joseph was seen as His father and it might be in this sense that Mary used the term father of Joseph.

“…sought thee sorrowing…” Mary and Joseph likely imagined all the tragic scenarios that could have befallen their son and blamed themselves for not being more protective of Him. This would have put them under severe stress and the last three days must have taken quite an emotional toll on them and helps explain Mary’s rebuke of Jesus.

It is perhaps easy for us to say that Joseph and Mary should have made no mistakes in dealing with their son Jesus, but we should realize that to be responsible for the son of God, nurturing Him, watching over Him, caring for Him, was certainly no easy matter. 

That kind of task is unimaginably difficult and could only be done because the parents were people of God, dedicated to God and willing to learn from God.

Clearly, both Mary and Joseph would have struggled to put together all the pieces to determine precisely the nature of our Lord, His humanity, and His Deity.  We know from subsequent Scripture that Mary was so filled with thoughts about the humanity of Jesus and caring as a mother that she forgot that He was deity, and that was what would determine how He acted toward persons in His family and others.

Verse 49.   Jesus response was certainly unexpected. One would have anticipated some sort of hesitant apology to Mary’s remarks in light of His seemingly less than thoughtful behaviour. Jesus’ response however is nothing of an apology for His behaviour; rather it appears to be a mixture of surprise and a little indignation. Jesus asked a question which shifted the focus and the rebuke from what they considered to be His error, to what was in fact Mary’s and Joseph’s error.

‘Why would you have had to look for Me?’ was Jesus’ question. ‘Shouldn’t you have known where I would be?’ 

In Jesus’ mind they had grounds to know and should have known that the Son of God was safe; that His heavenly Father would take care of Him and that He would do nothing improper.  Just in the event it had slipped their minds as to who He was, Jesus said “…I must be about my Father’s business.”  Point being, God was His real Father as opposed to Mary’s statement about Joseph and secondly His Father’s business took precedence over all else. He had a Father in heaven to whom He must first be obedient and respect to His Heavenly Father should not be construed as disrespect to them. In fact, Jesus was where He was expected to be; that is in ‘His Father’s house’ as some translations have it and naturally doing His Father’s business. After all He was at the age where Jewish boys began to learn a trade and often that of their father.

Verse 50-51.   Going by Luke’s record this was the end of the incident, because neither Mary nor Joseph really understood what had transpired or what Jesus actually meant by His questions. The fact that Jesus was the Messiah and Saviour of all men seemed lost on His parents, or they understood it in a very imperfect manner.

It sounds like without another word being said about the matter, Jesus voluntarily went with Joseph and Mary back to Nazareth, to live with them and in submission to their authority.  The knowledge of who He was did not make Jesus proud or arrogant. He acted and lived the life of a faithful and obedient child and was likely engaged in the trade of Joseph as a carpenter. (See Phil.2:5-8).

Note that obedience to parents is a duty and Jesus has set us an example. He was the Son of God, but also the son of Mary and He loved and obeyed His mother and was subject to her. In drawing conclusions from the Text it is important to distinguish between those things which are unique to Jesus as God Incarnate (the God-man) and those things in which He is an example to all.

For instance, only the Child Jesus who was both God and man, could rightly act contrary to the permission and preferences of His parents, as He did by remaining in Jerusalem after His parents had left for Nazareth. This incident is clearly not an example for other children and this is seen in Jesus total submission to His parents after this incident in the Temple and the fact it is stated immediately after Jesus went against what would have been His parents’ wishes.

…Went down with them…Jerusalem is situated in a high mountainous region thus they went down.

Once again Mary and Joseph were puzzled at the whole aura surrounding Jesus.  Joseph’s silence was typical and we are told that Mary as was now her habit, kept all these sayings in her heart. If their recall of the mysterious events surrounding the birth of Jesus had by now become distant, then this incident would once again bring them vividly back to mind.

Mary’s behaviour is exemplary and Christians should not dismiss Scriptures or the works of God they do not understand but rather they should keep and meditate on such things until the Holy Spirit brings light to the matter.

Verse 52.   And Jesus increased…similar to what is expressed in verse 40. Jesus at no time ceased to be God so what is expressed here refers to His humanity. Jesus was fully God and fully man and so experienced the normal growth that is the experience of all humans. The difference is that at every stage of His growth He realized full potential unlike all other humans who are tainted by sin and who never reach their full potential at any stage of their lives.

Jesus was all that a man could be at every stage of His development. He grew physically, spiritually, mentally and socially. The unparalleled grace of God was manifest in His life and thus He had favour with man and God.

It is pointed out that the Greek “increased” or “grew” (v. 52 prokopto) literally means to make one’s way forward by chopping down obstacles, a vivid description of the maturation process.

Understandably, in the perfections of His divine nature there could be no growth, for all the attributes of God are at all times infinite in their proportions and God is immutable.

Considering Jesus’ two natures one commentator observed:

Though the Eternal Word was united to the human soul from his conception, yet the divinity that dwelt in him manifested itself to his humanity by degrees, ad modum recipientis–in proportion to his capacity; as the faculties of his human soul grew more and more capable, the gifts it received from the divine nature were more and more communicated… Herein Christ accommodated himself to his estate of humiliation, that, as he condescended to be an infant, a child, a youth, so the image of God shone brighter in him, when he grew up to be a youth, than it did, or could, while he was an infant and a child.

CONCLUSION

Jesus sets an example regarding the priority of our lives and for Him seeing about His Father’s business was pre-eminent.

It is also of interest to God that children are obedient to parents; a point Luke makes concerning Jesus.  Yet there might be instances when obedience to parents or other authority conflicts with God’s will for an individual.

It is clear that throughout her son’s life, Mary tried to make sense out of it all, says one writer.

Clearly, parents have a difficult time sometimes in raising their children and the Scripture though warning them not to spare the rod and spoil the child, includes the Apostle warning parents not to provoke their children to wrath. Sensitivity is called for.

Our Text shows the governing principle in such situations as exemplified in our Lord’s behaviour. The principle is this as stated by a writer:  If God is our Father, then our ultimate obedience must be to Him, and not to any earthly authority, when the two conflict.

The Scriptures make it clear that God must be followed as the absolute, sovereign authority of our lives. When we are commanded otherwise by any authority “…we must obey God rather than men” (Acts 5:29). (See Luke 9:59-62, 12:52-53, 14:25-26; Mark 10:7:29-30). Parents should be cautious and careful that they do not stand in the way of their children following the Sovereign will God, even if this goes against what the parents might have intended for the children. 

We are not told explicitly what “His Father’s business” entailed, however it is evident that being at the Temple and having the opportunity to ask questions of the teachers was essential to Jesus’ spiritual growth, as well as to expose these rabbis to the real truth by asking them questions.

This spiritual growth can then be seen in the wider context of the preparation for His public ministry which He later describes as His Father’s work (will) (John 4:34; 6:38). The preparation was so important to Him that He found it necessary to act contrary to the wishes of His parents and from which we may conclude, that nothing should encumber us from access to those things which advance our spiritual growth.

The matter of spiritual growth was clearly of the utmost importance to Jesus and our spiritual growth should not be of any less importance to us. Exposure to the great teachers of His day was one means of Jesus’ growth and we should identify the means of our spiritual advancement and ensure they take precedence over the other things in our lives.

One writer list the following areas to which we should pay serious attention.

The Scriptures are essential to our growth, so that nothing should keep us from them (Ps. 19:7-14; 119 [whole psalm]; Acts 20:32; Rom. 16:25-26; 2 Tim. 3:14-17; Heb. 13:9; Jas. 1:21-22; 1 Pet. 2:2; 2 Pet. 2:2-4). So, too, is the edification and instruction provided by others in the body of Christ, which requires regular attendance and participation in the worship of the church (Psalm 73:17; Rom. 14-15; 1 Cor. 12-14; Eph. 4:1-16; Heb. 10:23-25). Prayer is another vital means of fellowship with God and growth (Eph. 6:18; 1 Thes. 5:18). Finally, obedience to what we know to be the will of God is a key to our further growth ( Matt. 7:24-27; Mark 4:21-25). Nothing should keep us from these vital means of growth.

The salient point Luke makes in recording this only incident from the childhood of Jesus revolves around the question, Who is Jesus Christ?

He was fully man and fully God and the Sovereign Lord needs not explain or excuse any of His actions.

On the other hand as the human son of Mary He submitted Himself to the parental authority of Joseph and Mary. In light of His unique personage as the ‘God-man’ all that He said and did was right, reasonable, rational and to be accepted.

The ultimate destiny of all humanity hinges on their reaction to Jesus Christ. His humanity qualifies Him to be the propitiation for sins of men. His deity gives infinite value to His sacrifice and thus satisfies the Father’s justice and men are thereby redeemed from eternal torment to eternal life. All are exhorted to accept Jesus Christ who is God Incarnate as their personal Saviour and have peace with God.